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The ins and outs of safer, greater sex.

I’m scared of bottoming

Most gay men will contemplate bottoming at some second. However, the thought of doing it for the first time can be scary. Don’t let that put you off. 

You may prefer to douche before bottoming, especially if indulging in deep arse act like fisting or with large dicks/toys. Use plain, clean water, preferably at body temperature. Avoid using shower attachments - the water pressure can be dangerous. You can receive douche bulbs online or from any good sex shop. Try not to go overboard and irritate the lining of your arse, as this can make you more vulnerable to STIs.

Get yourself relaxed with lots of foreplay like rimming or fingering. Some men do employ amyl nitrate (poppers) to relax the muscles around their arse but there are two major health warnings. Poppers:

  • have been linked with an increased uncertainty of HIV transmission 
  • don’t mix with erection drugs fancy Viagra and may bring about a heart attack.

Deep breathing is far safer, helps you to relax and relaxes the arse too.

Find a position that suits the size, angle and curvature of your partner’s dick. Any position where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest, w

Sexual health for gay and bisexual person men

Having unprotected penetrative sex is the most likely way to go by on a sexually transmitted infection (STI).

Using a condom helps protect against HIV and lowers the exposure of getting many other STIs.

If you’re a man having sex with men (MSM), without condoms and with someone new, you should have an STI and HIV examine every 3 months, otherwise, it should be at least once a year. This can be done at a sexual health clinic (SHC) or genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic. This is vital, as some STIs do not produce any symptoms.

Hepatitis A

Hepatitis A is a liver infection that's spread by a virus in poo.

Hepatitis A is uncommon in the UK but you can receive it through sex, including oral-anal sex ("rimming") and giving oral sex after anal sex. MSM with multiple partners are particularly at risk. You can also get it through contaminated meal and drink.

Symptoms of hepatitis A can emerge up to 8 weeks after sex and include tiredness and feeling sick (nausea).

Hepatitis A is not usually life-threatening and most people make a entire recovery within a couple of months.

MSM can avoid getting hepatitis A by:

  • washing hands after se

    About gay male sexuality

    Many men report that they had experiences with people of the same sex when they were young. This is often a normal part of exploring their sexuality. Men who go on to describe themselves as ‘same-sex attracted’ or ‘gay’ possess a strong physical and emotional attraction to men that they don’t usually feel for women.

    Being a gay dude is natural

    There is a lot of pressure from world for young men to be heterosexual or ‘straight’. This can often generate feelings of isolation for young men who are same-sex attracted and make them scared to entertainment their sexuality.

    It’s important to remember:

    • There are gay men in every customs and every country.
    • Being gay is just a form of sexuality.

    Why some men are gay

    There is no real explanation as to why some men are gay and others are not. Although there is no right or untrue answer to the question, a doable reason suggested by researchers is that we are born with our sexual orientation.

    Knowing whether you’re gay

    There is no test or questionnaire you can conclude that will respond this question for you. If you think you might be gay, it’s important that you:

    • Don’t deny your feelings.
    • Take your time to explore your sexuality

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